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Preparing for divorce as a father

| Sep 20, 2019 | Firm News

If you are currently struggling in your marriage and you suspect that divorce is on the horizon, your first priority is likely to be your children. As a father, you will never want to lose the strong bond you have with your kids because of divorce proceedings. But the reality is that your children will probably be spending some of their time living with the other parent once parental responsibilities have been allocated.

While you will never be able to predict the challenges that divorce will bring, you can work on preparing yourself for the hurdles that you will likely face. The following are some tips for fathers who are navigating parental responsibility and divorce.

Consider remaining in the family home

The fact that you are facing divorce suggests that you are finding it difficult to live with your spouse. You’ll likely be tempted to move out of the family home so that the two of you can get some space. This may be a good idea if it means that your children do not have to witness constant arguments. However, it may not put you in a good position when parental responsibilities are allocated. By staying in the family home, it shows that you take as much responsibility for the upbringing of your children as your divorcing spouse does.

Keep a diary

Keeping a diary throughout the divorce process can be a positive thing for two reasons. First, it can be a therapeutic way to get negative emotions off your chest. Diary keeping is known for supporting mental health. Second, it allows you to keep a record of events that have occurred, and interactions that have taken place between you and your spouse.

Prioritize healthy communication

Healthy communication is paramount in any relationship. You will need to be present with your children and explain the potentially confusing changes that are occurring in their lives. You will also need to make an effort to have transparent and collaborative communication with your divorcing spouse. There is no room for mind games and point-scoring when you are working out a solution that’s in the best interests of your children.

If you want to ensure that you continue to have a good relationship with your children after divorce, take steps now to prepare for the process.