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Make a plan for telling your children about the impending divorce

Parents planning to divorce face an uncomfortable challenge in having to relay the news to the children. Because kids have lived their entire lives with both parents in the same home, learning of the split can be devastating. Younger children might not understand what is going on and older kids can get resentful.

If possible, both parents should be there to discuss the matter with the children. Ideally, you will take time to plan out what you are going to say and how you will handle the situation.

Can these tips help save your marriage from divorce?

Are you facing marital difficulties? Have you come to realize that you need to take action or your marriage is in serious danger of ending in divorce?

Saving your marriage is easier said than done, but you owe it to yourself to try. Although you may feel alone, there are many other people in the same position as you. Also, your spouse is probably sharing many of the same feelings.

What should I know about Benzodiazepine addiction?

The first thing that everyone should know about benzodiazepine addiction is the fact that these drugs are potentially dangerous as they could lead to overdose and death. The second thing they should know is that possessing benzodiazepines without a prescription is illegal and could result in an arrest and drug charges.

Once a patient is addicted to benzodiazepines, however, it can be very difficult to stop taking the medication.

What should I include in my parenting plan?

Your parenting agreement will govern the way you and your ex-spouse interact in relation to your children. It will explain the when and where of parental custody and visitation and how you will share your caregiving responsibilities.

As you can imagine, your needs and the needs of your children and your ex will change over time. So, in addition to providing a clear structure, your parenting plan also needs to be sufficiently flexible to accommodate the evolving circumstances of your family.

Joint custody scheduling ideas for divorcing parents

Navigating joint child custody isn't necessarily easy, but the arrangements do have their benefits for both children and parents. One benefit for children is the fact that they will get to spend more quality time with both parents. Another benefit for adults is that they will get a break each week from their parenting responsibilities. During this time, they can date, enjoy alone time and pursue various hobbies and activities – ultimately helping the parent to be fresher and more attentive to their children when they have them.

There is virtually an infinite number of ways that parents can organize their parenting plans when they agree on whom the child will be staying with and when each week. Here are some of the most popular ways that parents organize their schedules in this regard:

  • Alternating weeks: The child lives one week with one parent and the next week with the other parent.
  • Two weeks alternating: The child lives two weeks with one parent and two weeks with the other.
  • 2-2-3: The child lives two days with one parent, two days with the other and three days with the other parent. This means the kids will spend alternating weekends with he parents.
  • 2-2-5-5: This two days on, two days off, five days on and five days off schedule may work for some families.
  • 3-4-4-3: Here is yet another way to organize parenting time.
  • Every weekend: This usually involves the child spending each weekend, plus an extra day with one parent and the school week with the other parent.
  • 4-3: The four days on, three days off schedule is a great option for some parents.

8 reasons other than infidelity that people get divorced

Infidelity frequently leads to divorce. However, perhaps because of how often it's portrayed in movies and television shows, people sometimes believe this is the main reason couples split up.

A husband meets someone new and realizes he's not happy in his own marriage. A wife feels neglected by her husband and begins looking for someone who pays attention to her. Two people get married because their friends and family expect it, but neither are happy, so they seek happiness outside the marriage.

A dedication to co-parenting can ease divorce-related tension

No matter what has gone wrong in your marriage, nothing changes the fact that you're hoping for a brighter future. Sure, there will be a variety of challenges standing in your way, but none of which are too big that they can't be overcome.

The divorce process is typically full of tension, stress and anxiety. This is particularly true if you have at least one child with your soon to be ex-spouse.

Heroin addiction: An illness or an offense against the state?

If you're suffering from a heroin addiction, or if you use heroin on a regular basis, you're breaking the law every time you use the drug. However, the users of heroin are often so devastatingly addicted that the use of the substance isn't a choice: It's a matter of life and death.

When an addiction becomes severe, any doctor or psychologist will agree that it's an illness and those who have fallen into addiction may have lost their will and cannot overcome the problem without help. Illinois courts attempt to reconcile the fact that many heroin users need medical and psychological help and -- in many ways -- this kind of aid is far more useful to the victim, and society, than incarceration.

Divorcing amicably: Yes, it's possible

It's true that no divorce is easy. There's lots of paperwork, and hurt feelings can get in the way of finalizing the steps of divorce as quickly as you'd like. Between arguments and disagreements, it's simple to let a divorce get the better of you.

The truth is that not all divorces have to be contentious. Even if you don't agree on everything, you can agree to divorce in as positive a manner as possible.

Thinking about divorce? Ask yourself these questions first

Divorces are, at their core, legal documents separating you from your spouse and ending your marriage. While there are many reasons you may want to get a divorce, you also need to take the time to weigh your options.

Getting a divorce won't necessarily end your troubles with your spouse. For instance, if you have children, a divorce might not mean you can stop talking to your ex-spouse. Before you get a divorce, take time to think about different aspects leading up to your decision.

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